Great Expectations… will bite you in the ass every time.

I know that having expectations can be problematic, especially when dealing with matters of the heart. Yet knowing this doesn’t stop me from having them most of the time. Here is an example. I joined eHarmony last month. Now there is a big old steaming pile of expectations just waiting to happen. I think everybody goes [...]

Welcome to my world…..

I am a woman of a certain age – late 40’s to be exact. Look, I’m not going to give up the exact age, so get over it.  Two years ago I found myself struggling to hold together a marriage to an philandering alcoholic. One day I finally woke up and thought “Why am I [...]